“You go home and invent a story about me, and now you can’t separate me from the person you’ve imagined me to be. You call that, I suppose, being in love; as a matter of fact, it’s being in delusion.”
― Virginia Woolf, Night and Day
“You go home and invent a story about me, and now you can’t separate me from the person you’ve imagined me to be. You call that, I suppose, being in love; as a matter of fact, it’s being in delusion.”
― Virginia Woolf, Night and Day
And not just projects, but what other things do we struggle to say no to?
What kinds of things are we expected never to say no to and why are we expected to be so accommodating?
What kinds of reactions do we imagine we’ll receive if we were to say no and if you have ever tried what actually happened when you did and how did you feel after?
Have you ever reacted negatively when someone said no to something you asked of them, and why?
How can we learn not just how to protect our own time and our boundaries but to allow others to protect their’s as well?